The big dilemma: embrace risks in change or keep settling
Lots of people say they’re stuck because they lack ideas.
Others say it’s because they can’t choose among their thousand ideas.
They say they’re stuck because they don’t know which to pick.
… “What if I pick the wrong one?”…
… “What if I waste my money, time, social capital, etc.?”
… “What if I’m wrong?”
But what they’re silently saying:
— “I’m scared to vote on myself.”
— “My desires don’t count enough to bet on.”
So they never make a decision and get in motion.
- Fear, indecision, and feeling undeserving stops them in their tracks.
Potential stays out of reach.
More happiness stays out of reach.
Days, weeks, years disappear into lives of discontent.
Turn lives stagnant.
Hiding behind the thousand options… they let those keep them stuck.
They let insecurities and lack of self-worth keep them stuck.
What if the thing keeping you on this side of change is lacking the courage to choose one option and move forward, regardless of outcome?
And what if the key to having the courage to do this is rooted in self-love?
What if the very act of choosing and moving forward is needed to MAKE your desires count?
- If you’re stalling on making a decision, a choice for change, maybe what’s holding you back is accepting the reality of self-importance.
If you make that connection it might give you the courage to choose one option and move forward.
To heed the inner whispers of guidance that will never stop, because your desires are as legitimate as anyone else’s.
Holding back is a choice you’re making.
But isn’t breaking free and acting on your desires a better choice?
If you embrace your own self-importance — believe it, nurture it — the ability to risk change follows.
Your desires count.
And the sense of self-importance is your birthright but may be up for a makeover.
Julie Browne
Courage-Ignite™
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